At times when we enter relationships we don't care what anyone says about who we're with. But why would you have that attitude if there's nothing wrong with the person you're dating? One of the main people that we display a big "MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS" sign is to our family. Our friends are usually the main source we seek approval when it comes to dating. We ask our friends what they think about 'em before we date 'em....And you see, there's the number one problem! Our friends will 90% of the time agree and encourage us to do whatever we want. If we want a tattoo, if we want a piercing, if we want to date. Friends are the main source we discuss these things with. Friends are there to encourage you. They are your public cheerleaders. To them it makes no difference who you date as long as "you're happy." But what do they know about happiness? A teacher being absence makes them happy, a seat on the bus makes 'em happy. Yes, it’s good to seek approval from your friends but don't let them influence you into dating anyone.
You see, one of the main people we should discuss this issue is with our family. Let it be a sister or a brother if you don't feel like talking to your parents. But THEY should be your number one cheerleaders when it comes to dating. Your family is the ONLY people that want the best for you. And especially your parents. Your mom and dad want someone perfect for you, not just any guy/girl, and especially not a bad one. To your friends, dating a bad guy would be the topic of the century, "ya will make the cuties couple!" is probably what they'll say, disregarding the guy's true intentions or his attitude, or lack of respect, to them it just matters if they're hot. We'll let me you something, you shouldn't be in a relationship just for their appearance. You should want to form a relationship with someone that respects you, that shares your same moral beliefs, someone that honor YOUR parents and listen to their words. Because a guy/girl that disrespects your parents is not a guy/girl worth dating, and furthermore will disrespect you down the line. Not only does that make that person dishonest but untrustworthy.
-PleaseDefineLove.blogspot.com
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