Girls usually have the reputation of being mean, and a bit snobby to other girls. In my opinion I say girls are just naturally competitive when it comes to “beauty”. Just like men are competitive with sports, women are competitive with everything else. Girls want to feel like they are “hotter” than anyone else they come across. When a beautiful girl walks right past us we’ll say things like “She’s’ not THAT pretty,” “What a slut,” or “Her teeth are BUSTED!”
But why are we like this? Well, one main underlining issue is that in the privacy of our own home, we don’t even think were as beautiful as we portray ourselves in public. Before the day is over we probably say at least 4 things about our bodies we hate. With more reason, when we think we’re not even pretty how can we admit someone is prettier than us?
I say enough with that. If a prettier girl comes and sits next to you, instead of making negative comments, why don’t you ask her where she got her dress, or how she did her hair or what she does to stay so slim. Don’t continue to be mean. If mean is what you give out, mean is what you will receive back. And here’s a little nudge in the right direction, 1. Next time you stand in front of a mirror say TWO things you like about yourself every morning and every night. 2. Compliment someone every day. Start off with your mom or sister, and then escalate to your friends and co-workers. 3. BE CONFIDENT! Remember, no matter what you say about yourselves right now, you are beautiful! Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, beauty cannot be measured. Stop comparing yourselves with photos of celebrities! Did you know that EVERY photo you see in a magazine of celebrities is PHOTOSHOPPED? They even HIDE when they don’t have make up. Just remember that when you begin to compare yourselves to someone. And remember, Your Beautiful.
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