Baby Please Don't Go

            I learned various life lessons along the years. One in particular I cannot stress enough is that, no matter how much your partner may love you, or feel about you, if you don’t have the same feelings, don’t be in the relationship for the other person. You should be in a relationship because YOU want to. You should be happy in a relationship and not feel guilty because you don’t love them. Follow your heart. Don’t give that person a glimpse of hope when you know there is no future. And even when your relationship started great, if you feel as if your love for someone has come to a sudden stop, it’s better to bring up the issue and not ignore it. It is better to be truthful and just say “hey, the fire inside of me has gone out” maybe you just need to address an issue with them to rekindle a relationship. And if you feel you want out in a relationship, do not feel bad for saying so, it’s your happiness that’s at stake too! Yes you may have shattered his/her feelings, but wouldn’t you rather be with someone that YOU really love? Someone that YOU feel just as passionate about? Relationships aren’t easy; and at times very sticky. Don’t give someone a chance you know very well won’t lead to anything in the future. As I have learned, you will too. You will hurt them MORE than what you think your helping being in a false relationship. Remember, be in a relationship because YOU want to, not because your pressured, not because your force and not to seek refuge, but because you love and are loved back. When it comes to love, there is NO second guessing, it’s either he’s it or he’s not.