Quote for the day

I Want The Best For You

At times when we enter relationships we don't care what anyone says about who we're with. But why would you have that attitude if there's nothing wrong with the person you're dating? One of the main people that we display a big "MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS" sign is to our family. Our friends are usually the main source we seek approval when it comes to dating. We ask our friends what they think about 'em before we date 'em....And you see, there's the number one problem! Our friends will 90% of the time agree and encourage us to do whatever we want. If we want a tattoo, if we want a piercing, if we want to date. Friends are the main source we discuss these things with. Friends are there to encourage you. They are your public cheerleaders. To them it makes no difference who you date as long as "you're happy." But what do they know about happiness? A teacher being absence makes them happy,  a seat on the bus makes 'em happy. Yes, it’s good to seek approval from your friends but don't let them influence you into dating anyone. 

           

You see, one of the main people we should discuss this issue is with our family. Let it be a sister or a brother if you don't feel like talking to your parents. But THEY should be your number one cheerleaders when it comes to dating. Your family is the ONLY people that want the best for you. And especially your parents. Your mom and dad want someone perfect for you, not just any guy/girl, and especially not a bad one. To your friends, dating a bad guy would be the topic of the century, "ya will make the cuties couple!" is probably what they'll say, disregarding the guy's true intentions or his attitude, or lack of respect, to them it just matters if they're hot. We'll let me you something, you shouldn't be in a relationship just for their appearance. You should want to form a relationship with someone that respects you, that shares your same moral beliefs, someone that honor YOUR parents and listen to their words. Because a guy/girl that disrespects your parents is not a guy/girl worth dating, and furthermore will disrespect you down the line. Not only does that make that person dishonest but untrustworthy.

-PleaseDefineLove.blogspot.com

Quotes for the day

"If your relationship started with a lie, it will end in one too" 

"Don't give someone a glimpse of hope when you know there is no future"

     

"Why should I be good in the kitchen when you're no good in bed!"

"You are my flower and I am your sun"

Oh No She Didn't!

Girls usually have the reputation of being mean, and a bit snobby to other girls. In my opinion I say girls are just naturally competitive when it comes to “beauty”. Just like men are competitive with sports, women are competitive with everything else. Girls want to feel like they are “hotter” than anyone else they come across. When a beautiful girl walks right past us we’ll say things like “She’s’ not THAT pretty,” “What a slut,” or “Her teeth are BUSTED!”

But why are we like this? Well, one main underlining issue is that in the privacy of our own home, we don’t even think were as beautiful as we portray ourselves in public. Before the day is over we probably say at least 4 things about our bodies we hate. With more reason, when we think we’re not even pretty how can we admit someone is prettier than us?

            I say enough with that. If a prettier girl comes and sits next to you, instead of making negative comments, why don’t you ask her where she got her dress, or how she did her hair or what she does to stay so slim. Don’t continue to be mean. If mean is what you give out, mean is what you will receive back. And here’s a little nudge in the right direction, 1. Next time you stand in front of a mirror say TWO things you like about yourself every morning and every night. 2. Compliment someone every day. Start off with your mom or sister, and then escalate to your friends and co-workers. 3. BE CONFIDENT! Remember, no matter what you say about yourselves right now, you are beautiful! Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, beauty cannot be measured. Stop comparing yourselves with photos of celebrities! Did you know that EVERY photo you see in a magazine of celebrities is PHOTOSHOPPED? They even HIDE when they don’t have make up. Just remember that when you begin to compare yourselves to someone. And remember, Your Beautiful.

Baby Please Don't Go

            I learned various life lessons along the years. One in particular I cannot stress enough is that, no matter how much your partner may love you, or feel about you, if you don’t have the same feelings, don’t be in the relationship for the other person. You should be in a relationship because YOU want to. You should be happy in a relationship and not feel guilty because you don’t love them. Follow your heart. Don’t give that person a glimpse of hope when you know there is no future. And even when your relationship started great, if you feel as if your love for someone has come to a sudden stop, it’s better to bring up the issue and not ignore it. It is better to be truthful and just say “hey, the fire inside of me has gone out” maybe you just need to address an issue with them to rekindle a relationship. And if you feel you want out in a relationship, do not feel bad for saying so, it’s your happiness that’s at stake too! Yes you may have shattered his/her feelings, but wouldn’t you rather be with someone that YOU really love? Someone that YOU feel just as passionate about? Relationships aren’t easy; and at times very sticky. Don’t give someone a chance you know very well won’t lead to anything in the future. As I have learned, you will too. You will hurt them MORE than what you think your helping being in a false relationship. Remember, be in a relationship because YOU want to, not because your pressured, not because your force and not to seek refuge, but because you love and are loved back. When it comes to love, there is NO second guessing, it’s either he’s it or he’s not.

The Intro

            Love (or what we think is love) is an inevitable feeling we all experience at one time or another. That excitement we get when we first look at each other or kiss is exhilarating. But that feeling we get isn’t love. Love goes much deeper than a rapid heartbeat. Love is kind, never envious, love is strength, never weakness, love is nothing without respect. Sometimes we question where our relationship will lead when there’s no love. If you’ve ever asked yourself whether or not there’s love in your relationship, then look no further. This blog is for you. This blog is for everyone who has ever cared for anyone. Here I will give you advice on what’s love and what isn’t. Advice on what to look out for and what to throw away. There’s no sugar coding in this blog! It’s either he’s into you or not, and if he’s not, then don’t worry, there’s always “pick me up” quotes to get a smile on that face. No one should ever cry for a rejected love, there’s enough fish in the sea for you not to get down for one lost cause.